Yes, I vaguely remember, my sister's college roommate chose me to be her advice giver, and then announced her intentions ot marry that Brazilian basketball player, so whatever. Whatever I say will be the wrong thing to say. Do I advise her to reject him? Or do I advise her to go ahead and marry him? Either way, there could be complications in whatever I might think of saying. I think that guidance counselor will not be my choice of occupation. Needles to say.
Also, don't I know that those basketball players are only in a Christian college for sports scholarship? They have no affinity with our philosophical notions of what it means to be a Christian. Sports people are notoriously frivolous and self-absrobed. They do not socialize with normal people. After the game is over, who knows where they congregate in some raunchy bars or joints that we would not care to be seen at, not with those worthless sports geeks. But should I expressly state that in this situation? How could she not already know that anyway/ How is she not already of wary of dating some half-naked jungle boy?