Yes, I do think that if my second cousin wants to go off and found a removed and separate branch of the family in the Philippines, that is his legal right. Nobody can really tell him not to go there. Even so, that is not our branch of the family, he is just gone off on his own recognizance and there is no duty implied for me to have to go running after them to try to teach them English and other things they are not really entitled to know anyway. As the song says, sometimes you don't know what you got until it's gone.
I think that I will always have other things to do than to go there only to be insulted by vicious nasty Asians.