Yes, Jesus has said that to be fit for the kingdom of God, one must hate even one's own mother and father, by comparison. However, in my case, it may be more the aunts and uncles who must be disdained completely as part of that deal. In order to be fit for the kingdom, I would needs drop them off at the dumpster. I am not saying to kill them, maybe they could get saved someday. But for now, they are nothing to me. I never discuss anything with them. I could say more, but I do have biblical grounds for cutting them out of my life if that is what God wants.