When we were small children living in San Bernardino, California, I remember that my parents took us to the local YWCA/YMCA for swimming lessons. Later, when my aunt came to visit us she went on a date with one of the swimming instructors there, but I don't remember him. That apparently amounted to nothing much because I cannot remember what his name was or anything about him. He must have disappeared from the scene very quickly because no one has yet again heard of anything about him.