Yes I do hope that you can think for yourself. If you can make good decisions on your own behalf, then you will not need to concern yourself about whatever Holly said. But, on the other hand, if you cannot think for yourself and make your own decisions, then you will have to do whatever Holly says. Holly will tell you about the statistics and what the social science experts are saying about you, and you will have to do whatever Holly says, you will be just another statistic in Holly's book, you will be a slave to Holly's statistical charts. So those are your choices. Think for yourself or be a slave of Holly. I do not see where I have anything to say about that. That had nothing to do with me. It was your choice.