Yes, I noticed that you are not really an Anderson, perhaps you only wish that you were adopted by the Andersons, but of course I cannot imagine what problems might be caused by your step-Anderson family, yourself being only Dutch, because that was never my problem. The only Anderson I can remember was a dim-bulb sociology major in college who forgot everything so it would be a complete waste of time to try to communicate with that shaggy dog. You say one thing to them and the next thing you know some warped or oppostie version of that comes flying back around. So just never start something new and that might be one way to prevent future eruptions.