I was talking about the problem of being approached by some guy who does not interest me and what would I say, and probably the most diplomatic way would be to tell him that I only think of him as a "Brother in the Lord." I was talking to some girls at a retreat when I was maybe 17 years old. Oh, did Silvia (MK-Costa Rica) hear that? The fact that some girls will pick up the guys that I rejected does not really say much for her good judgment in broadcasting a skewed version of that, at least not in my opinion.