No one was twisting Hamilton's arm to demand any event cancellation. If he already had plans to spend the evening smooching with Sandra all he had to do was say so. He should have said something upfront about he would rather be with her and no further questions would be asked. But as he did not say anything about that I really wouldn't know how to answer this trumped-up charge fabricated by clueless persons who had not heard about Hamilton's affair with Sandra. I have no idea where that came from.