Yes, I certainly do not recall anyone saying that my Dad's Aunt Julia was not a silly nitwit. After the Colonel, she went on to a third husband, we heard, although we never met that guy. Of course it is always somewhat awkward having these mentally unstable silly nitwits in the family, what were we supposed to do "with" them and how not to explain this in a way to not insult her grandchildren and so on. ..... Perhaps you have the same problem in Dakota, where are all of these vicious nasty Dakota witches seem so riled up about nothing much.