Yes, we have to be nice to these people. We don't dare tell Charity how much the sight of her makes us want to puke. We could get fired or at the very least demoted if we were to express our true disgust at the thought of Charity. Charity has the power to make our lives miserable and so we must disguise our true opinions and avoid the power circles where we might have the misfortune of coming into contact with Charity. Sad but true that that is just how it is in this crazy mixed-up world.